Thursday, February 11, 2010

Happenings

Sacrifice

As many of you know...it was a sad day for me a few weeks ago. Spence and I sold our Sequoia. He approached me on a Sunday about selling it since it's an "asset" and we could use the money to help us during this financial difficulty. I got very defensive and upset and said absolutely not. This is my car and I am not selling it. We NEED it. What will we do when the baby is born- strap him on top of your car? I can't take the risk of not having the money by then to be able to purchase another car. I went to bed in tears and with my mind going and going.... I woke up the next day and said "Ok, I will do it." I knew that sometimes we are required to make sacrifices in this life. It's just a vehicle- right? (I think deep down I thought it would be awhile until it sold because of this market...who's going to have money for a car right now?) We contacted a few family members that were in the market for a car. They lived out of state though. Spence's niece said she was interested and would let us know. We sat on it for a day and didn't hear anything. So Wednesday I cleaned out the car and took some pics and put it on KSL Classifieds. I posted the ad at 2pm. At 3:30 I was on the way to meet someone for the first test drive. Two other people called during that time to test drive it. We sold it to the 2nd people that drove it. So by 6pm that night it was sold. And, the lady works over here in Jordan Landing, so I can drive by and see it whenever I want. lol I know that the Lord had a hand in us selling it so quickly to these nice people. They had almost purchased a vehicle the night before but decided to hold out. The lady saw mine on KSL and said she had a good feeling about it. Things have a way of working out.

I have to admit that I bawled while cleaning it out and while driving it the last time, but once we were able to catch up with some bills, that stress relief was worth it. My mom has let us borrow her car for a few weeks to help us out. I hope that we will be able to get on our feet again before baby is born to purchase a new one. (And hopefully the new sequoias won't be recalled anymore because I refuse to purchase a mini-van...)



Pregnancy Update


I will be 24 weeks pregnant this Sunday. I had Claire take some pictures of me last week- so these are when I was 22 1/2 weeks prego. I am doing well so far. Ultrasound last week showed a nice healthy baby boy. I had gained 7 pounds total at time these were taken. (I'm sure it is much more than that now since I have discovered those caramel bites from Del Taco.) I am definitely feeling my age during this pregnancy. Seems I wear out easier and my pelvic bones hurt more. Is it too early to be experiencing braxton hicks- cuz I swear I have them.






I have been very moody the past few months and have been so tempted to talk to my doctor about getting on some prozac. I had to stop taking my normal anti-depressant when I became pregnant. I know I have had some outside stressers that play into my mood swings so I am trying to take that into consideration. I hate to take anything while pregnant- even if it's approved. You just never know....


Claire

Now on to Claire...she just got "Principal's Pride" award earlier this week for being a good student and improving in her reading.




She was given a certificate presented by the principal, along with a certificate for a free kids meal at Red Robin. Why can't they just give them a notebook or something? Now I am required to take her to a restaurant and fork out my own money to eat with her so she can get her reward. I may have to make that suggestion to the school.... I'm sure the certificates are donated so that's why they do it.

5 comments:

Shauna said...

Love your pregnancy pics! You are still so teenie! Congrats to Claire too! Sorry about selling your car though....sounds like that was a tough thing to do. I'm sure you'll be blessed for your sacrifice :-)

Emily said...

Yay for Claire!!! And yay for baby!!! You look fabulous (I am loving - L.O.V.I.N.G. the new haircut). And, I'm sorry to inform you, but it is not too early for Braxton Hicks. I swear they came earlier and earlier with each pregnancy. With the twins, there were nights that I would spend on the couch trying to recover from the stupid "fake" contractions. Good luck with that. (Remember: You can come over and borrow the massage chair any time you want. My sister came over nearly every night before bed to ease her back pain. You are always welcome.)

Sorry to hear about your car. Mini vans aren't that terrible. I promise.

Love you!!!

Jen-ben said...

Just think one of these days...you'll drive up in your brand new mini van that you LOVE and give everyone in the neighborhood a nice lesson on putting their toilet paper back on the roll, and leave a little cheesecake present behind. It will be lovely. :)
You'll be blessed, you guys are so amazing and you've stayed so strong during such a hard time. We love you!!

Allyson said...

I totally admire you for being able to sacrifice like that! I'm sure it was very hard but probably taught you what you're made of a little! I won't be offended by the mini van comment...even though I totally LOVE mine! Maybe the lesson is "mini vans ARE good enough". :) I love your blog!!!! Oh! And good for Claire!

Tyler and Jen said...

I don't think it's too early to be having Braxton Hick's contractions...I've been having them since about 12 weeks. I started coughing at the movies a couple of nights ago and I left to go out into the hall way and I coughed so hard I gave myself a really bad contraction...it scared the hell out of me!!! I thought "Oh my gosh! I've going to cough this baby right out of me!" I know how you feel about your car. We are going to have to sell my truck. I love my truck! Although, I must admit I AM looking forward to getting a minivan. You look great! I'm 4 weeks behind you and I'm sure I'm the same size as you if not bigger...so unfair! LOL! I'm feeling old this pregnancy...like by uterus is just going to fall out and my bones are just going to fall apart and I'm going to go to sleep and never wake up because I'm just so tired! I'm so done!